"I despise Self-love" - ego

  I was browsing youtube and in my recommended feed I saw mindful soul's post about inner work and healing. 

Mindful soul's post:

My comment:

   sometimes one resolves pain as deserved by oneself for past pitfalls. I think loving oneself by forgiving and allowing mistakes to be; without being hateful about oneself or others which backfires in forced vexing, one hence judged for oneself, could lead to real improvement. 

  This could be power-killed so all energies could be use to learn for improving upon the साधना. 

   Theres no sense in dwelling on pitfalls, inflicting pain on oneself, and I see from psych eye, is balancing the sheets of self worth. there's quite a relation of ego and pain. Loving oneself is often ego's negligence. 

    Don't let him destroy you neither lose longing to an elegant life which attains by learning, doing things differently and knowing its demand, and making sure that ignorance wont render flaws in साधना.  

    Avoiding severely wrecked life also includes showing temperance for the bits of scratching on ego as withdrawals of a lifestyle used to being an egoist. 

 LOVE and work that's all there is - freud